Post by ChristVader on Apr 3, 2006 9:17:33 GMT -5
I dont know who you are tinman, but you are sick....(strong words used to be here)
My family has been crying and screaming this morninig now for close to an hour over this stupid attempt at having a little fun.
For those of you who do not know, our two families moved from Birmingham to Tampa together. We lived together for over 4 months until both Jason and I could get settled into jobs and our own housing. Prior to moving here we did everything together. There was hardly a time when we were not together. Hoops, Church, Seminars, Rap awards...we even worked together. It was a 24 7 thing.
Now our kids are bonded like only kids can be. They are at the house totaly freaking out over this because they, my seven year old daughter at least, can't quite put together
1.) That Mom and Dad would be out without the kids( shes only had like one or two baby sitter experiences in her life) So she is still trying to sort out that her litle friends are ok... And
2.) That "Mr. Jason" is now gone like her two Great Grandmothers went this past summer...And now
3.) That an adult could even create such an awful feeling inside her and even think to call it a "JOKE"!!!
She ran around all day Saturday telling people their "fly" was undone, and then quickly replying "April Fools!!!" So she isn't getting it. At all. She is destroyed right now. ...(real strong words used to be right here)
One hour she has lost her "Mr. Jason" who gave her her EJAY CD and the next hour he ok. She still doesn't understand why we don't see "Mr. Jason" anymore as it is. But this has crushed her.
Then there is my son. He's 12. Immediatly he asked about Jordan, his sword fighting buddy. At first he was sad about "Mr. Jason"....now hes just pissed at whoever did this to his Mom. Sister and Dad.
And lastly there is my wife. She knows it was a joke now. She called the Hospital. I won't go into all of the wailing that went on on the other end of the phone. Just leave it at this: ...(strong words that expressed how my wife wanted to deal with you were right here)
You see the church we were attending already lost one member and no one called then to tell us about that death. So we just took this in stride with that experience.
Thank God James Wolf called Jason's place of employment. I was 2 seconds from calling myself and God only knows what I would have said. The first death without notification was bad enough. That was just a Church Member if you will. Jason's employer however knows of our relationship and in this appered to have show no more concern or intrest. So I was even more pissed off this time!
Thank God I didn't make that call.
Lastly, I seriously hope the moderators of this board will ban you tinman from this board. And that after you apologise. This is beyond sick and should not be tolerated. I hope all involved will realize the gravity of a situation like this.
My family has been crying and screaming this morninig now for close to an hour over this stupid attempt at having a little fun.
For those of you who do not know, our two families moved from Birmingham to Tampa together. We lived together for over 4 months until both Jason and I could get settled into jobs and our own housing. Prior to moving here we did everything together. There was hardly a time when we were not together. Hoops, Church, Seminars, Rap awards...we even worked together. It was a 24 7 thing.
Now our kids are bonded like only kids can be. They are at the house totaly freaking out over this because they, my seven year old daughter at least, can't quite put together
1.) That Mom and Dad would be out without the kids( shes only had like one or two baby sitter experiences in her life) So she is still trying to sort out that her litle friends are ok... And
2.) That "Mr. Jason" is now gone like her two Great Grandmothers went this past summer...And now
3.) That an adult could even create such an awful feeling inside her and even think to call it a "JOKE"!!!
She ran around all day Saturday telling people their "fly" was undone, and then quickly replying "April Fools!!!" So she isn't getting it. At all. She is destroyed right now. ...(real strong words used to be right here)
One hour she has lost her "Mr. Jason" who gave her her EJAY CD and the next hour he ok. She still doesn't understand why we don't see "Mr. Jason" anymore as it is. But this has crushed her.
Then there is my son. He's 12. Immediatly he asked about Jordan, his sword fighting buddy. At first he was sad about "Mr. Jason"....now hes just pissed at whoever did this to his Mom. Sister and Dad.
And lastly there is my wife. She knows it was a joke now. She called the Hospital. I won't go into all of the wailing that went on on the other end of the phone. Just leave it at this: ...(strong words that expressed how my wife wanted to deal with you were right here)
You see the church we were attending already lost one member and no one called then to tell us about that death. So we just took this in stride with that experience.
Thank God James Wolf called Jason's place of employment. I was 2 seconds from calling myself and God only knows what I would have said. The first death without notification was bad enough. That was just a Church Member if you will. Jason's employer however knows of our relationship and in this appered to have show no more concern or intrest. So I was even more pissed off this time!
Thank God I didn't make that call.
Lastly, I seriously hope the moderators of this board will ban you tinman from this board. And that after you apologise. This is beyond sick and should not be tolerated. I hope all involved will realize the gravity of a situation like this.